Testimonials
"Erika is a no-nonsense, straight talking and direct agent of change and transformation. With clarity, precision, and razor-sharp insight, she supported me in making deep changes and shifts in a very short time. I wholeheartedly recommend Erika if you want to make changes as quickly as possible and move out of unhealthy patterns or those that don’t serve your highest purpose. Erika creates a container that leaves no sticky residue. Her directness is a healing salve and deeply refreshing and nourishing in these times of ambiguity and untruth."
— C. S.
“Erika’s healing codependency support groups have done nothing short of saving my life. Before I started working with her, I was stuck in destructive patterns of contorting myself to make other people “comfortable,” not stating my needs, suffocating in resentment, and lying to myself and others all the time without even realizing it. I was ready to blow up my life, but I haven’t had to because I’ve learned how to change my behavior in order to improve my experience of the world around me. I now have tools for how to live with integrity and in alignment with my values, I know how to speak up for myself and stay out of other people’s business, and perhaps most amazingly, I am so much more at peace with the possibility of people not liking me. She gives fully and freely from the heart in each session, and what she gives is truly priceless, essential information. I’ve also watched the people in my group transform before my eyes as we go through this process of healing our codependent patterns together. Working with Erika has been a journey of coming home to myself.“
— A.S.
“You can only go as deep in your healing as the person guiding you. Erika has clearly done her own work—she meets you in the depths with presence, wisdom, and grounded, real-time insight. Her responses feel both channeled and practical—never scripted, always attuned. It’s powerful. I’ve worked with many coaches over the years, and Erika is the real deal. I’ve invested a lot in my personal growth, and working with Erika has been one of the most worthwhile investments I’ve made.”
— Past Participant
“I am a different person now after this year. Instead of presenting myself, I have let myself be seen and felt the love in the sharing of myself. I felt unconditional love when sharing the most embarrassing parts of myself. Hearing your prayers gave me words for my prayers.”
- CG
“I walk around the world in a totally different way. This work has changed my marriage, it’s changed the way I raise my children, it’s changed the way I treat my family, my parents. Mostly it has the way I feel about myself and my relationship with myself. This work helps me in my life everyday.”
- L.
“Codependency has proven to be an elusive bugger in my life. When I saw the invite to become better equipped as a parent, who recently divorced with a 10 and 7-year-old, it was an immediate YES in my sacral. From the moment Erika started the first session it was evident she was committed and passionate about helping me and the others in the group show up for our children in ways that were both loving and empowering to everyone involved. I know that I want to do things differently than what I experienced as a child. Erika provided powerful paradigms and tools for me that have already created a difference in how I’m showing up to my kids. And that is invaluable. Thank you, Erika!“
— M.S.
“I would like to bring to light what going through 12 weeks of Erika's Healing Codependency Classes has done for me. I have put myself in traditional therapy for the last two years to process parts of myself I wanted to be free of. I wasn’t getting the healing I needed there and had been frustrated with therapy, and almost quit. I stumbled into Erika's workshop in a newsletter in my email by chance. I inquired, and I signed up. I have found that attending classes has been like having lightbulbs in my brain simply turn on. The process of going through the classes has been helpful for me to navigate through my situations with others, and myself. I believe I am getting the relief that has been plaguing me for all of my adult life in this area, which I might not otherwise have gotten, had I not joined these classes. I highly recommend these classes to those who are willing to face themselves, get some real work done, to be free from unnecessary bondage in these areas of their life. “
— T. P.
“My ability to ask for the love when I need it has been such a tremendous thing. Sitting in this group for a year has brought me to prayer, to a true relationship with creator. I felt really lost before. I feel like I belong in a new way. I received such wisdom from each woman’s prayers and so much support from Erika. I am proud of myself, I feel aligned with my truest intention, purpose, prayer, and how I want to show up in the world.”
- VJ
“The healing codependency counseling group was one of the best and most challenging healing experiences of my life. It helped me to view my own old patterns that were no longer working and move forward with more integrity and groundedness in myself. A huge part of that was possible because of the safe space Erika created for vulnerability and transformation; her unbridled honesty and fierce compassion are incredibly helpful and unique.“
— E.B.
“Life feels different. I notice that all of my material is coming up constantly, but I am not as hooked by it. I see it, it’s horrible and painful, but I am not jumping on it like a horse and riding away on it like I used to.
I feel a freedom and peace that I’ve never felt in my life. I trust that I am working through exactly what I need to be working through. All my relationships feel better, and I can show up in a way that I never would have imagined possible. It gives me hope that I can be in relationships in a healthy way. That hope has felt elusive in the past.
I spent 2 weeks on a family vacation practicing my non-codependency moment to moment. I saw myself owning my feelings, communicating them, feeling them, and still being able to look for what needed to soften inside me, for the place I wanted to move towards. Something has shifted in my ability to find that place within myself.”
- V.
"Words cannot fully express my gratitude for the life-changing lessons I learned in your class at Spirit Weavers. In just a few hours, you gave me the tools to transform my reality and how I show up for myself. Your teachings helped me finally see my worth, honor my needs, and realize that by trying to make my partner happy, I was abandoning myself. Today, that relationship ended—and we both feel free.
I've been enthusiastically sharing your name with everyone in my life because I want them to experience this transformation too. Thank you for speaking your truth!"
— K.S.
“I’m in contact with myself and others in a way that I have never quite understood how to be. What has changed is that I can stay connected inside by tracking the codependent patterns that hooked me in the past. Instead of trying to make meaning out of things that are none of my business, I love the feeling of being embodied through a lens that is honest and truthful.
This practice has radically changed my life. As a therapist, this is some of the deepest work I’ve ever done. I want all my client to do this work. Thank you, Erika, for having eyeballs and a heart that bring this work forward in such an accessible way. What you are guiding us through feels like the great turning of what the world needs at this time.”
- R.
“I began to see that the way I was in relationship with the people in my life created layers of isolation and hostility in me. I don’t want to be that way. I don’t want to carry that or be that. It’s a dead end. I’m learning to be an open channel, to communicate differently. The language I’ve learned from this group and the medicine works everywhere. I don’t need anyone to do anything to make me feel lovable. I just have to be the love.”
- SB
"I needed a space to witness other people and know that I’m not alone in my experience. I’m inspired by the courage and integrity of the group. When you can witness transformation in other people, you can believe that it’s possible for yourself."
— A. D.
“Immediate relief of my shitty thoughts happens in this group. This group is where I come to get right every week. People in my life reflect back to me that I am different and they like it. All my relationships are being effected positively through the infinite positive ripples of the healing available through the medicine. I can’t believe how much I love all of these women and I didn’t know that I would feel such intimacy in this community. It feels so safe. I can let myself be myself all the time.”
- CW
“I feel an ease, spaciousness, and fluidity around time. It’s extremely grounding to be softening and settling in to my prayer. I didn’t have the time or impetus to create space for myself in the way before. It feels SO good. I’m leaving behind rigidity around my thoughts, grasping thoughts of how things should be, how I should be, judgements, etc. I feel unrecognizable in the best way. I am a vessel of appreciation for my new perspective in my relationships, my ability to receive what others are offering me and all the gifts that have been given to me over this year.”
- AG
“I had a session with Erika that I found to be incredibly grounding, inspiring, and informative. I continue to reflect on and integrate her insights and guidance months later. Being able to get this kind of support was profoundly helpful in navigating these tumultuous times. I will definitely be coming back to Erika when I face my next inflection point.“
— R. H.
"Erika provided a release from a previous mindset in my life. Allowing me to fully trust where I am currently. Erika is clearly bringing to others what she is meant to be doing. Authentically, with rawness, and complete truth. Thank you, Erika, for sharing this invaluable part of yourself and your gift with me. Helping to connect and tether ancestrally. A subtle shift in mindset can bring a transformational shift in life. I highly recommend Erika with this help."
— M. M.
“I now have a direct relationship with the medicine. I felt the permission from the first ceremony and have carried on a conversation with the medicine ever since. The medicine held me so gently in my hardest times. I received a new level of implementation to let it all come, let it all go. The clarity of knowing what is my prayer and what is not my prayer is so helpful. I feel the arising of true, authentic gratitude for landing in the lap of the medicine and in the lap of this group, a genuine sisterhood.”
- JT
"Erika is a straight-shooting, no BS, tell-it-how-it-is wizard. Her life experiences combined with her god-given gifts and her big heart come together to provide those in her care with a unique and profound offering. I’ve been lucky enough to receive counsel from Erika and was soothed by her clarity of vision and sincere guidance. Her direct line to spirit is well-tuned and helps me trust mine."
— E. L.
"Erika dives right in and wastes zero time getting to the heart of whatever is coming up. She's authentic, precise, and not afraid to lovingly call you out on your nonsense. Our session gave me a perspective that I had never allowed myself to consider and unveiled a better way for me to orient myself around my relations. In her very cool, casual way, she makes the irrefutable argument that all that matters is Love, and I'm grateful for her wisdom!"
— H. A.
“I love, love, love working with Erika and have done so on numerous occasions, each session left me with a profound sense of clarity, levity, and a renewed sense of purpose. She marries the big picture with the steps one needs to get there, all the while modeling what it looks like to be inimitably and unabashedly herself. Truly remarkable!“
— A. S.
"Marriage is a beautiful thing — and it’s hard. My wife and I have been married for 12 years and we’ve spent many of those years working on ourselves and our relationship, seeking help from professionals. Erika’s approach is unlike anything I have experienced. I appreciate when she allows me to identify my obstacles, and redirects me to a better path to follow. Like anything involving growth, you have to continue to develop your practice and use the tools to reap the rewards. Erika is a caring, no-fuss healer who has guided my wife and me to a new way of thinking, acting, and living. I highly recommend her services."
— R. C.
"My ancestor reading with Erika is so powerfully healing. She helped me move through a very stressful time in my life and gain a new, more helpful perspective. I was able to move forward with ease, and the inspiration from our session has stuck with me. It completely changed my outlook and provided me the confidence I needed to move forward the way I was meant to in this world. I can't recommend this offering highly enough!"
— S. O.
“My reading with Erika was the exact tool I needed to bring in to complete clarity all of the pieces of familial line abuses that had shattered me. I knew the truths of my healing work and had been using meditation, therapy, and creative writing to make my way through the darkness of what I had been experiencing, but for some reason, I had not been able to feel these truths concretely. Erika stepped in and cleared all my self-doubt and guilt. As her words poured in, I was immediately struck by my instinct to absolutely surrender and just listen and take it in, but it was more than that. I could feel her and her guides placing deep healing in my aura. In essence, what Erika did was give me a spiritual mic drop. It was an ancestral needle and thread that sewed up all the pieces of my journey in a way that I could not have done on my own or with conventional therapy. I am grateful that Erika has made herself available for this important healing work. Her eloquence is so uniquely hers and it is beyond words.“
— S. B.
"Absolute Light! Readings with Erika illuminate everything that wishes us well. She has an incredible connection to source and an ability to extract and communicate the highest guidance that we are seeking. My sessions with Erika have been life-changing in the best way possible."
— E. C.
“Erika read my soul! Her reading brought me clarity about my life purpose, the next steps that are available to me - and answers to specific questions that I had been carrying around. I couldn’t recommend her more highly and I am now gifting readings to all my friends.“
— B. W.
“Feeling the love from my ancestors coming through Erika to me is so incredibly comforting. I heard echoes of my prayers that have evolved over the years. The ancestors are always listening and it was beautiful and heartwarming to receive the blessing of reassurance from all that wishes me well.“
— A. K.